I just read the following articles and, though they were meant to be funny, I really want to talk about how a lot of people meet (or think they are going to meet) the opposite sex nowadays.
These articles are cute descriptions of the different types of guys and girls that can be found at the club scene. What is funny about the two articles is that our of the 6 types of guys, there is not one type that is described as being into finding a proper partner. Generally, conquests is what is on these guys’ mind’s (girls, drugs, ego gratification…)
Out of the girls….attention is high on the list of things they are looking for – not suitable mates.
I get it that it is not a secret that you won’t find a potential spouse by going to clubs every night, but….the fact that most of us have enjoyed the game at some point in our life does say something about the nature of man and woman. And…..the fact that clubs are still highly successful everywhere, hints to the fact that we are quite comfortable in our natural roles.
It is clear to me that men and women were created with certain inherent traits that are near impossible to get rid of – no matter how much the opposite sex wants us to.
Men are hunters and women wanted to be hunted…
In my opinion, in order to have a successful relationship, we need to be able to build one upon this premise.
In other words, women cannot allow men to take them for granted.
We must dangle the meat – and the meat may not always be our physical bodies….in fact quality men will love the mind of a woman…..
And… men must provide women with enough attention so that she feels wanted so that she will continue to dangle the meat.
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